Maybe if you're lucky... But then again... Maybe not...

The dating scene is brutal... Some people just seem to breeze through it like its nothing. They just have people fall in their laps and BOOM, they're suddenly off the market. For the rest of the population, it makes those left, want to slap the lucky ones upside the head with a slimy electric eel...

Have you ever felt that pull to someone, that you've only known a short time, that is like nothing else you've experienced? That one person that makes the flutters in your chest feel stronger... That one person that makes the swarm of butterflies in your stomach feel that much bigger than all the others... That one person who is on the same page of their life book as you are... That one person that you can actually envision a future with, rather than just only being able to see the now... That one person that you tell yourself over and over and over again, to not let in, because you know that if it doesn't last, it will break you so much worse than anyone has before, but you do it anyway, because you just honestly cannot help but do so, because even though the potential for a tonne of pain is there, you know it is so very worth it?

Maybe if you're lucky, that person will be ready for you and for the challenges that lay ahead, in what has the potential to be incredible! Maybe if you're lucky, you'll find someone that doesn't push you away at the first sign of some of their baggage falling off the carousel. Maybe if you're lucky, you'll find someone that trusts you enough to know that you will be there beside them, to pick up that baggage, help them sort through the contents and then help them lift it back up onto the carousel with them, together.

Maybe if you're lucky, you will find this person and be able to dig your heels and your heart in and keep a hold of them.

But then again... Maybe not...

Maybe you'll be left wondering... Was I just the rebound? Was I just the scratcher of an itch? Was I too much for them? Did I really mean as much to them as they said? Did I really find my way into their heart as well, like they said I did or were they just saying what they thought I wanted/needed to hear?

Maybe if you're lucky you'll get the answers to these questions... Maybe if you're lucky, they just need a little more time and will come back to you when they're ready for you and what you could be together.

But then again... Maybe not...

#thewaitinggamesucks